Saturday, June 27, 2009

Popped off

The king of pop has popped off. And in doing so, he has, albeit unwittingly, become a text-book example of the exquisitely loony priorities of our age.

The paper and paperless media world-wide dished out article after article on how... people responded to Michael Jackson's death, not really about his death at all. About how Madonna could not stop crying, about how x wailed his heart out, about how y drank his wallet out,... but little about Michael Jackson himself, the iconic weirdo of our times.

Sometimes, the media is the mirror of a society's soul.


Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Many happy returns of the Date!

Akshitha celebrated her 2nd Birthday on 21st June, 2009. It seems to be such a totally acceptable misnomer, this Birthday thing. For starters, we don't celebrate the Birthday, rather, the Birthdate. Next, it's not even the Birthdate, it's the anniversary of the Birthdate. Most poignantly, we blow out a candle to bring on darkness, rather than light a lamp to welcome the light of life to the celebration.

Either way, she rules the house.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

NDE

Such is life. And death. A couple known to Jeet collapsed due to food-poisoning yesterday after having dined at Lotus Garden, a joint frequented by our whole gang. As of yesterday, the young son of 5 passed away. And today, his elder sister of 8. I can't imagine the situation of this family who has lost both children in the space of two days due to food,- something we associate with life rather than death. This has also to be a new dimension in food poisoning, and ironical considering that the Food Inspection Department is pretty strict as per the PR machinery. And to think, we ourselves were always overflowing with heady praise for this eatery.

The close psychological shave is that we were in Praji's brother-in-law's place the same day they dined there, and his house is just a phone's throw from the Lotus Garden. I actually suggested ordering from there, and was eventually voted out by the rest. Had we ordered from there, I don't know if I would be typing this now. A different kind of NDE. Aum Sri Sai Ram!

Friday, June 12, 2009

Living wisdom

Watched an incredible video yesterday at the Mandir. A question posed in the video was: Do you know how to get wisdom? Somehow, that question rattled for long in my mind. It seems perfectly ironic that the moment one stops thinking he knows, wisdom dawns. The same difference between living and live-ing.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Race Attack

For me, America is an expansive country,- in size, shape, thought and intellect.

They have now elected a well-toned black man to the Presidency, while just 100 years back, they were trading these types. It truly goes to show that, while the cancer still exists, the people are fighting it, both in the courts, and in their minds.

I don't know if the same can be said of India. I mean, how many high-caste individuals still feel that others can be equally human, and will eat in their houses? How many SC/STs have actually been elected CMs/PMs? India will have a longer fight against, caste, in addition to that against creed and currency. Obama used no privilege of any quota system. He went to Harvard. However, just as change has taken place in the US, seeds are being sown in the Motherland as well. Our generation, for example, is a lot less tunnel-visioned, and caste seems less of an issue than personal-ities. Albeit, for racism in its most refined form of casteism, our Motherland has to be the Fatherland.

Conviction in(spite of) Wall Street

It has to be America.

I was in Times Square last week, and Times Square is one incredibly big Triangle. You have like only-God-knows-how-many people moving, running, singing, sighing, kissing, staring at the free-falling indices, playing, praying and cursing.

What was most touching was that, in this very Fatherland of capitalism and consumerism, just a short distance form Times Square, and near Wall Street, there was this lady distributing pamphelts on vegetarianism and PETA. Of all things, vegetarianism. It could mean only one thing. America, for all its attributes, is the land of the free spirit. Of conviction. I doubt if that lady could change the concrete mindsets of anybody passing by her. But that didn't stop her. Conviction beyond convenience.

It has to be America.

R/Evolution

While in Boston, I was discussing with a doctor on a very interesting topic. He drew a comparison betwee computers and Medicine, and stressed that Medicine lags by lifetimes in terms of finding cures for diseases, while the computer industry has been incredible in the way they have broken through in technological developments.

Interesting. That, of all engineering disciplines, he chose the only one that is seemingly going through revolution after revolution. In Mechanical Engineering, technological revolutions take decades, while evolutions happen everyday. Like, the automotive industry has been feeding off oil for the last hundred years, while car speeds have increased. Only now do they think of solar and other forms. It could be the same for other traditional disciplines as well.

However, what's most interesting is that, we are comparing man to machine here. Mankind has taken millions of years to evolve to the current level of sickness. So, we can't expect instant breakthroughs. More importantly, in some ways, we are evolving backwards, The phase lag can only lag further.

Garbage-rating

One way of determining the level of ethical progress of your society is by installing my patented garbometer in your brain.

You just look around and count the number of segregations of your garbage bin. If it has got four or more, you can be sure that society is serious about ir/relevant concepts including global warming, Mother Earth, and deforestation.

If you have no segregation, you must be in the Middle East, or in the Sub-continent.

100% Lawsuit guaranteed

It seems the most commonly heard phrase on TV in the US is 100% satisfaction guaranteed. Are they a seriously dissatisfied population? I mean, you have automatic toothpaste vending machines, automatic curtains, automatic coolers, automatic heaters, automatic lighting, instant weight-loss, instant silicon-gain, instant whitening, instant tanning, instant money, instant pain-relief, an instant in an instant,... why do they require ads to always talk of 100% satisfaction guaranteed?

Which means someone has actually started quantifying satisfaction? Which means the lawyer profession in America has just landed on a potential jackpot here.

The Liberty Statute


It's been quite some time since I last visited my epad. Things have been happening inspite of my absence, like my body visited the US for a short period.

It's an interesting world out there. In many ways, the US encapsulates for your understanding, the best and the beyond worst of what civilization has to offer. Interestingly, civilization contains civil, which is probably a scary irony.

The place is the motherland of commercialism, capitalism, im/morality, spirituality, atheism, and, on the same note, of the free spirit. Nowhere else will you find gay couples and pastors preaching in the same park, and with both parties given equal liberty to do so. That probably sums it up. This truly is the land of liberty, with its concomitant (not very pretty) tagalongs.

Interestingly, the motherland of liberty does not seem to offer too much of freedom. Freedom of life is starkly different from freedom of expression. Having said that, freedom of expression is in itself a luxury. Like, for example, how many civil-izations will allow you to question religious practices and still leave you alive?


Friday, May 22, 2009

Just a millimetre

Tuesday night, 19th May, 2009, Akshitha lacerated her eyelid. Though her laceration cleaved me then, I now realize that, the Avatar must have worked out a major tragedy through a minor nick.


Just A millimetre

 

My baby injured herself last night,

She lacerated her right eye-lid;

Just a millimetre above her eye-lash,

A millimetre from destiny’s bid.

 

As the blood trickled down her cheek

And shrieks ran around the place;

I stood and stared, then rushed unfazed,

She had been saved by Divine Grace.

 

While the hospital doctors checked and tested,

And wondered at this incredible miss;

I realized her fate had no doubt been averted,

And the unseen hand was undoubtedly His.

 

As she sleeps soundly by me now,

Pristine, unattached and unaffected;

I look to Him in awe and wonder,

At the play that had just been enacted.

 

For, her design is in His very hands,

And though we are thankless to mention;

He steers her over life’s catastrophes,

With every timely nick and laceration.

 

For, I was there yesterday

And yet it mattered next to nothing;

She has her future to sojourn,

Where my prayer will remain but a farthing.

 

For, in spite of what we accomplish,

And how we gloriously enact our every whim;

We have to sustain the realization,

That we owe it all to Him.

 

Millimeters from appalling tragedy,

Seconds from eternal pain;

He guides and guards us throughout,

How do we repay our gain?

 

We live our lives in astonishing delusion,

Controlling little beyond ignorant actions;

While the unseen Hand sways throughout,

And makes all the decisions.

 

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

A different school of thought

Visited my alma mater, Indian High School yesterday, where I first set foot in 30 years back. Remembered the good old times, and mused on how difficult they make it current students to bunk classes. Earlier, we could just hop across wall to the Sindhi Club (formerly Indian Sports Club). Now, there is a whole building in between. Students need to be more creative now.

On a more serious note, it feel strange to see all these innocent and curious children being steadily worked on to have their pure open minds replaced with indoctrinated narrow ones, filled with a lot of information and very little learning. In retrospect, Moral Science classes used to be a formality (maybe they still do). Such is modern day education. Thank God there is Bal Vikas.

On another note, there was a declamation contest going on with students speaking in the national language wearing western costumes. Wearing western clothing will make us as westernised as speaking in Hindi will make us Indians. 

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Inspired (In)action

Ramu seems to be forcing me to think too much, something that I am not much used to. He mentioned the other day about people setting examples for inspiration. 

Well, inspiration for inspiration's sake is like reading a book on swimming. Michael Phelps will only inspire you, the diving has to be come from you.  Inspiration leads you nowhere if it does not prompt action. On the other hand, action that is not inspired is like archery blindfolded. You will keep shooting till the cows come home, but you will never hit your target. 

To recount my statement during a meeting recently, if you haven't stretched yourself, you haven't been effective. Whatever we do that is only comfortable, will rarely be anything purposeful. Armchair effort is for government employees, and is not the hallmark of enterprise and enterprising individuals. 

Ramakant's words of nicedom

Had a philosophical discussion with Ram 'The Scorpio' Victo at 5 mins. past midnight last night,- obviously we don't have a life.


I mentioned to him in passing about one of my personal heroes in our network being Radha, who in many ways, is all that I am not. And the scoop of the night was his very interesting statement that good leaders can never become effective leaders. And he mentioned someone very respected as an example. 


On deeper thought, it could extend to the herculean difficulty in balancing principles with popularity, and rare has been the one to have achieved this balance. Principles may be popular, as long as they are explained, not so when they are enacted (and especially by others).  

Monday, April 27, 2009

Kerala - Most Literate and Most Ignorant

Just returned from a short trip to my very on God's Own County, Trichur. 

Truly, if it werent for the cancer of Communism that is atrophying the psyche of the masses and the contagion of corruption that is consuming the economic health of the state, this would truly have been God's Own Country. Seemingly, Keralites work very hard to steer clear of growth and prosperity. 

Following our careersteps

Reading the 7 habits and I am That together, meaning the best of management and the best of life at the same time, not easy. Interestingly, both talk of detachment in different ways. 

Have been putting two and four together, and have come to accept that although intensely hard, we have to prevent ourselves from constantly attempting to embellish our own autobiographies through the lives of our children. We can hope, but cannot force our hope. It's sometimes easier in the West when the father is a doctor and the son is on his way to becoming a guitarist,- and there is no problem.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Unparking ourselves

Wow! Talk aobut being ourselves for a change. It was like a catharsis, after an year of asphyxiation. Salient points of yesterday's meeting:

Rajiv: Desecrated that delicate Taboo game toy, and along with Sindhuja, contributed immensely to volleyball, by remaining at the boundary of the court for most of the game.

Sindhuja 'The Server' Sundarajan: Courageously evaded the volleyball anytime it came towards her. Also, offered her valuable motivational comment, "Go for it!"

Janani 'The Matador': Played dodgeball and volleyball with the exact amount of seriousness it didn't deserve. Also, castigated Rajiv for not speaking to his wife for 50 full days. Rajiv, this is the wrong spirit, don't do that. Show respect. Be loving, caring... Janani, you can stop reading now. Rajiv, way to go dude! Keep it up!
Also, offered her valuable motivational comment, "Girls, go for it!"

Prajeen: Remained confused for most of the match as to whether he was a player for Navneet's team or whether he was an umpire. 

Aibrami: Stayed out of the ball's way as much as possible. Repeatedly exclaimed, "Watch out, the ball is coming." Also, offered her valuable motivational comment, "Go for it, girls!"

Sanjay: Well played by offering our fair team an unfair disadvantage with repeatedly Shyaming the already confused referee, Prajeen.

Ramakant: Shyammed through most of the match.

Krishita: Excellent 'bowling' during volleyball. Also, offered her valuable motivational comment, "Girls, go for it, girls!" Also, schemed to use the trees and the sun to our benefit. Well schemed. If Janani is reading this, Krishita, this is not fair. This is not dharmic. We have to uphold the dignity of sports...

Navneet: Played very well and wore sensuous striped clothing. 

Priyanka: Master schemer and grand misplacer of the ball. Well played. 

Comment of the day goes to Shalu:
"What?! Girish is married? Oh my God! I mean, Oh my God! (To Abirami) So, you are Girish's wife?! What?! You are not?! Oh my God! I mean, you are Rajesh's wife?! I mean, Rajesh is married?! Oh my God! What?! That's Girish's son?! Oh my God! God, oh my God! Girish has got a son?! What?! Two children?! Oh my, oh my God, oh my God! As I only come to bhajans and leave immediately after conversations, I don't get to know anything. 

She unfortunately missed out on offering her valuable motivational comment, "Go for it!", as she left early. Well unsaid.





Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Throw of hope

Kindly observe our resident dude Arjun being himself during the refereeing for this event,- his cell phone kept romancing him during the cricket matches as well. 

 

Cricketer from Australia

A Gentleman and a Convenor during the Gentleman's game.

Ladies 'going for it'.

Wonder what it means,- they kept chanting it like some kind of mantram throughout the Throwball match.

Arjun being himself


Parents being children

One jump for Navneet and a giant leap for the Youth


Leap of Faith

We had our SAI Annual Sports Day on Friday, 3rd April, 2009, - conducted by the SAI Youth Mission, Dubai.

This has been a redemption in many ways, following the wake-up disaster call of last Christmas. This mega event has proved a number of things in a number of quarters. The important thing is that we have now raised the bar for ourselves in what we can accomplish. The tough thing is to maintain that impression. Securing a good reputation seems far easier than retaining it.

Some pictures follow.

Children being themselves















Sunday, March 29, 2009

Degree of Education

Read an article recently on the truck-loads of degree-brandishing Engineers that daily stalk the bylanes and main roads (of hell) of Bangalore. 

Going by my own suffering at the hands of the academia, it might be safe to summarize that modern education has produced an army of well degree-d individuals, who are also exquisitely uneducated.

Rain-gauge

Raining like pussies and puppies, just the right weather for an excuse to be late. I reached office much earlier than everyone expected, and got to hear a comment from a colleague that I am on time only when others are late!

Well, one is judged based on how one acts in times of crisis,- seasons of comfort are never the right premises for judging one's capabilities. 

Monday, March 23, 2009

Exer(t)cising

I am (literally) bending over backwards to keep my tummy in. In fact, a six-pack is not even in the cards. But it's interesting how slows your body is to respond the moment it has entered catabolism. You exercise at a constant rate, but your stomach progresses at an exponential one. Quite the reverse of what happened at 25. Life begins to catch up with you. 

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Health is (junk-bond) Wealth

I was at Deira City Centre last evening with Poohpooh and Baby; after an hour of pointless window shopping, we ended up at the Food Court. 

It was incredible to note that while there were about 20 customers lined up at the MacDonald's counter, there was just one at Subway (and that was me). It seems that, of all possessions in hand, health seems to be the most expendable one,- after conscience and common sense. 

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Medical (Work) Camp

We have a medical camp scheduled for coming Friday, 20th. 

Interestingly, there are only three youth involved. To customize someone else's words, many a time we miss out on seva opportunities, because they come dressed in overalls and look like hard and unglamorous work.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Closer to church

Was debating the current conversion crusade and the instinctive reaction of the same with a friend. 

Does going to church regularly make one a Christian? Probably makes him only a regular church-goer though. 

Ex-Chief Minister Karunakaran visits Guruvayoor every month, which makes him a regular Guruvayoor visitor. It was Spinoza, I think, who mentioned that the last Christian died on the cross.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Sweet-sighted

We celebrated a colleague's birthdate anniversary yesterday, with the cutting of the customary cake. All office-members ganged round the conference table and started clicking pictures of the cake sitting in the middle of the table in all its indifference.

It struck me that everybody was there trying to immortalize the cake in front of them while the raison detre of the cake itself was relegated to the background. Such seems to be the myopic vision of our life. We yearn for the illusory sweetness of the transient, while the permanent source of all sweetnes is rarely focused on. 

Monday, March 9, 2009

Love Sai, Serve Sai

Strikes me that devotion to Sai does not make one a Sai devotee. Devotion to the Sai Principle makes one a Sai devotee.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Stealing On Desires

With Swami's grace, last night, I started my Ceiling on Desires sadhana with great fanfare and media attention. For the first time in recorded history, a wash-cloth got wedged between my hands and my BMW. 

I reckoned that, since a car-wash would set me back by a good AED 45.00, I could account for my AED 30.00 for the COD plan with just one wash. However, that one wash took me a good one hour, as I knew not what I was doing. The BMW is a big car, and I am not the tallest man. So, I don't even know if I covered all visible areas. The challenge was made more challenging by the fact that, my common senselessnes asked me to wash at night. So, I just assumed that I did a good job! 

But in spirituality, the means mean a lot. The end is not in your hands.

My Child of the Pure Unclouded Brow and Dreaming Eyes of Wonder

Trip to the beach on 6th March. 

Little do we realize that, at some point, they stop holding your hand for themselves, as much as do for you. Such is life. They are the sons and daughters of life's yearning for love.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Realistic Fantasies

At 20, our reality is very fantastical. By 35, our fantasies become very realistic.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Better Misunderstanding

I was going through an old EPC contract recently. Whatever was not explicitly anti-vendor, was incredibly ambiguous. Reading between the lines led to even better misunderstanding. 

Similar to the answers you don't get when you ask women questions. Statements need not be answers.

Racing on thin air

Another Sai brother lost his job yesterday. Unfortunately, he worked in a 'want' industry, rather than a 'need' industry. Our city seems to be riding a thoroughbred of debt on a racetrack in the sky.

Monday, March 2, 2009

Medication and Moronkind

Continuing from my previous post on health, it's interesting to note what mankind is preferring to invest in, these days. 

Respecting your body

Praji has started yoga classes. I sometimes feel I need day-long yoga classes to prepare me for the next couple of hours. If yoga means union, I desperately need to get united with myself; I lost myself many years back. Probably this planet as a whole needs yoga classes.

On another note, it's pretty logical that how you respect your body today is how your body will respect you tomorrow. You could probably extend it to: how your respect your body in this life will be how your body will respect you in the next.


Thursday, February 26, 2009

Someone is reading all this?

Finally, someone is reading my blogs! Rohit 'The Putthar' Mahajan, called up to say he likes what I write! 

But then, good writing does not equate to good communication. If it were so, the youth wing would have moved from static to dynamic to dynamite a long time ago. If communication does not lead to action, it remains a diarrhoea of words. Like this post.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Little Epiphanic moments

Just realized that, in service: It is not in what you do, rather, in what you see in what you do. The mind rules over matter. Milton was the one who said that, they also serve who stand and wait.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Science vs. Spirituality

The timeless (and pointless) fight between science and Spirituality continues in my bathroom.

I have, since January 01, 2009, braved the elements and the forewarnings of Science to bathe in cold water. So, technically, it's Yogananda vs. Science here. He used to emphasize on cold water baths aiding immunity, whilst Science tells you that a cold water bath will get you cold. 

Last month's winner has been Spirituality.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

It's never too late to regret

When your future arrives, it will be too late to regret. But if regret begets renewed effort, it's never too late.

Emotional vs. Rational

Poohpooh got a new laptop for herself yesterday, 18th Feb. In other words, I got her a laptop that would suit my specifications! Did a good amount of research and spent two hours. She commented that she would have spent as much time buying a pair of shoes. Buying shoes of your choice is an emotional decision. 

Buying a laptop should be a rational decision. Same effort, different objectives. 

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